Psychics (Readings) Tips for Finding a Good Psychic, Red Flags for seeing a Bad Psychic
What kind of psychic reading are you looking for?
Are you looking to contact a dead relative? If so, you would search for psychic mediums to do your psychic reading. Do you have a love problem? If so, you would look for a love psychic. Do you just want to know what your future holds? Then you would just look for a general psychic reading.
User Rating System.
I think this is the best way to find a good online or telephone psychic, if you do not have any referrals from friends. When you are looking at user ratings look to see if they have “repeat” clients. This is often a very good sign, as you don’t go back to a psychic that nothing happens they have expected in their psychic reading.
In person, by phone, or by online chat?
I do psychic readings all three ways; in person, by phone, and by psychic online chat.
In person readings are the most popular, due to the general misconception that you have to be with a person to pick up their energy. This is truly not true.
In person readings truly have many disadvantages for a genuine psychic. When a psychic sees a person his or her subconscious mind automatically stereotypes them (age, class, race, etc), this limits the psychics intuitive freedom and objectivity. We don’t average to do this but it does definitely happen, it is how the mind works.
What should you tell the psychic when you come for a psychic reading?
Name and DOB. If you are able give pictures and objects of the people involved this can sometimes be helpful to the psychic reading in addition.
Genuine psychics really don’t want to know anything! Anything you tell us only limits our objectivity. I get so many clients that want to give me a detailed history of their lives and then expect me to do a psychic reading for them. A real psychic wants as little information as possible; otherwise we lose our objectivity and will become intellectually biased.
Come to a psychic reading with an open mind and heart.
It is very important not to estimate a psychic reading based on your belief or the current appearances. Many clients are in the “mental box.” They will consider the psychic as “bad” simply because it is either not what they want to hear or looking at the appearances (current and past) the predictions seem impossible to them. This is a cognitive distortion. It is kind of like trading stocks based on yesterday’s newspapers. It is insane really…
Do psychics just tell you what you want to hear?
Well, I don’t know about other psychics, but I make my money off of repeat business. So, I do not have a motive to tell people what they want to hear. I am confident other specialized psychics are also of the same rationale.
Should you get a psychic reading when you are in intense emotional states?
No! This is the most shared mistake that clients make. Emotions produce strong vibrations and many times the psychic will mistake the client’s hopes and fears as what is going to happen. It is best to take a sea salt bath and be in a relaxed state of mind before coming for a psychic reading.
Do honest psychics see the calendar?
We can see what is going to happen and generally the ball park of when. Rarely can we see exact dates. In fact, this is a red flag to look for if a psychic tells you they can. Psychic Readings are good for telling you what is going to happen and astrology readings tell you “when.”
Dial a curse?
To know is to avid. Good psychics will tell someone, in a skillful proactive way, of something negative is on the horizon in their psychic reading. If you know it is going to rain you just bring an umbrella and you are not effected.
The future is not set in stone; you have the strength to change things that you know ahead of time. That is the value of a good psychic reading really. If everything was set in stone, getting a psychic reading would be pointless.
SCAM ARTIST PSYCHIC-RED FLAGS TO LOOK FOR:
Psychics cannot provide to give their sets away free. Many times there free psychic readings consequence in you spending thousands of dollars in taking curses off that never existed. People that are good at what they do simply do not give their sets away for free.
Immediate Results, Results In Hours, or Never Failed
Spiritual Work doesn’t work like this. If you plant a tomato plant do you get tomatoes overnight? I believe that the best spiritual work is often done by the client, and you should try to do your own work before hiring anyone to “do it for you.” In my practice, I try to coach clients how to help themselves (self-empowerment).
Mother, Sister, Brother, Madam, and Reverend
You will find that many of the psychics that are “gypsy psychics” use these kind of titles. They will often times tell you they do their work in the church. This is ludicrous, as traditional religion does not believe in psychics for the most part. I don’t know of any church or temple that is going to allow a psychic to do candle rituals in it.
Must act now or something terrible will happen to you or your family.
Bad psychics always will try to push the fear button in people. They know that people are more likely to do something because they are “afraid.”
If you discuss the work we are doing then it will not work and/or something bad will happen.
I agree that many things should not be discussed with people that do not believe in these kind of things. There are many people that are very negative and are just looking for the chance to shoot down your hopes and desires in life.
However, psychics that tell you this are typically telling you this so someone that cares about you won’t talk some sense into you.